The Joy of Giving, Twice

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A donor-advised fund creates two distinct moments of joy in giving: the moment you decide where your generosity goes, and the moment you watch its potential grow before it gets there. Both are worth understanding, and both are available to donors at almost any level of giving.

There’s a reason giving feels different from spending. Spending closes something. Giving opens it.

Most people assume the good feeling comes at the end, when the grant is made, the check written, and the name is on the wall. But donors who give thoughtfully tend to describe something more layered than that. The joy doesn’t arrive once. It arrives in stages.

What makes giving feel good?

Economists have a name for it: the “warm glow,” the satisfaction that comes from the act of giving itself, not only from what the gift accomplishes.¹ And unlike most pleasures, this one seems to last. In research that followed people giving repeatedly, the happiness they felt from giving didn’t fade the way the happiness from spending on themselves did.² Giving feels good, in other words, and it keeps feeling good, especially when it feels chosen. Not obligated. Not rushed. Chosen deliberately, on your own terms, toward something you actually care about.

The mechanics of how you give matter less than most people think. What matters is the sense of agency, that this was your decision, made with intention, directed somewhere meaningful.

That’s not a small thing to design for. Most giving structures don’t make it easy.

The first joy: choosing where and when your giving goes

Think of a donor-advised fund the way you might think of a retirement account, but for charitable giving. You contribute assets, you receive a potential tax benefit in the year you contribute, and then you recommend grants to the causes you care about over time. There’s no rush to decide everything at once.

That last part is where the first joy lives. You don’t have to have all the answers on the day you give. You can fund the account when the timing makes sense for you, after a liquidity event, at the end of a strong year, when a particular asset has grown significantly, and then take the time to give thoughtfully.

For donors who’ve spent years building something, that sense of control translates directly. The decision is yours. The pace is yours. The causes are yours.

The second joy: watching your giving do more over time

Once assets are contributed, they can be invested and have the potential to grow before grants are made. What’s available to give later can be more than what was contributed at the start.

Growth is never guaranteed, and investment performance will vary. But the structure preserves the possibility. For donors who care about impact, that possibility matters. A contribution made today could support more good work tomorrow than it would have if it had been granted immediately.

There’s something quietly satisfying about that. The giving is already in motion, already working toward something, before a single grant has been recommended. The second joy is less about a moment and more about a horizon.

The quiet joy of giving without your name on it

Not every donor wants recognition. For many, the most meaningful giving happens when no one knows it came from them.

Grants from a donor-advised fund can be made anonymously, if you choose. You decide, gift by gift, whether your name is attached. The receiving organization knows a grant arrived. It doesn’t have to know from whom.

That anonymity changes the feeling of giving in ways that are hard to articulate but easy to recognize. It removes the performance of generosity. What’s left is the thing itself, the contribution, the cause, the impact, without the social weight attached to it. For donors who find that weight uncomfortable, or who simply prefer to give without expectation of acknowledgment, that option carries real emotional value.

Anonymous charitable giving isn’t a workaround. For many donors, it’s the point.

Giving together, as a family

Some of the most meaningful giving happens when it’s shared. A donor-advised fund supports family involvement naturally, without requiring formal governance or scheduled meetings.

Adult children or grandchildren can be brought into the process by reviewing organizations, discussing causes, and even recommending grants together. The structure is flexible enough to be as simple or as deliberate as the family wants. There’s no board required, no director or officer roles to assign, no paperwork to file.

What there is: a reason to talk about what the family values, and a way to act on it together. For donors who want their approach to giving to outlast them, that conversation is where it starts. And it can keep going: name the next generation to carry the account forward, and the giving, along with the values behind it, continues after you.

Frequently asked questions

Can you give anonymously through a donor-advised fund?

Yes. Grants can be made without disclosing the donor’s name to the recipient organization. The receiving nonprofit knows a grant arrived and from which sponsoring organization; it does not have to know who recommended it. For donors who prefer to give without recognition, this is one of the structure’s clearest practical benefits.

Can a family give together through a donor-advised fund?

Yes. Donors regularly involve family members in the grantmaking process, reviewing causes, recommending grants, making decisions together. Accounts can also name successors, allowing the next generation to continue the giving after the original donor’s lifetime. No formal governance structure is required.

Can giving grow before it’s granted?

Contributed assets can be invested and have the potential to grow over time before grants are made. That means the amount available to give later may exceed the original contribution. Growth is not guaranteed, and investment performance will vary. The structure simply keeps the possibility open.

Do you need a lot of money to start a donor-advised fund?

Minimums vary by sponsoring organization, but donor-advised funds are accessible at contribution levels well below what a private foundation would require. If you’re unsure whether your current giving level is a fit, your financial advisor can help you identify the right starting point.

Sources

1.  Andreoni, J. (1990). Impure Altruism and Donations to Public Goods: A Theory of Warm-Glow Giving. The Economic Journal, 100(401), 464–477.

2.  O’Brien, E., & Kassirer, S. (2019). People Are Slow to Adapt to the Warm Glow of Giving. Psychological Science, 30(2), 193–204.

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